How to Open a Conversation That Lasts

Open with something that proves you read his profile. One sentence is enough. "You mentioned mezcal — what's the bottle that converted you?" beats five paragraphs of compliments every time.

Ask one specific question. Don't list. Don't perform. Curiosity is the most attractive thing you can offer a stranger, and it costs nothing.

When he answers, build on what he said before you say something new about yourself. That tiny act — quoting him back to him — is what makes a person feel actually seen.